🌀 “Stuck on Someone Who Stayed?” | By Roselyn A. St Claire

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🌀 When Loyalty Feels Like a Curse Instead of Comfort

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"They stayed with me through every loss. Every failure. Every heartbreak. But now I wonder—were they holding me down… or holding me back?"

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We love to celebrate the ride-or-die, don’t we?

The one who sticks around through the heartbreaks, the job loss, the family drama, the health scares, the failed dreams.
They’re supposed to be a real one—a keeper.
Someone you build with.

But what if, after all that, you wake up one day… and wonder:

“Why do bad things keep happening when you’re around?”

It’s a terrifying thought. Almost shameful.
After all, this person never left you.
They held your hand when the lights went out.
They rubbed your back when grief bent you in half.
They stayed when others ran.

So how dare you… question their energy?

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☁️ When Loyalty and Lack Start to Look Alike

Here’s the uncomfortable truth:

Someone can love you and still carry energy that’s out of alignment with your elevation.

They can be loyal—and still stagnant.
They can be kind—and still unintentionally block your blessings.
They can be present—and still keep you trapped in cycles of emotional drought, financial lack, or spiritual exhaustion.

It doesn’t mean they’re evil.
It just means the connection might be heavy, karmic… or expired.

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🧿 The Energy They Bring

Some people walk into your life, and everything opens up:
💸 Money flows
💡 Ideas bloom
🕊 Peace returns

Others walk in and:
🚫 The car breaks down
💔 Emotions run high
🔄 Dreams stall

You spend more time recovering than growing.

If someone’s presence always coincides with your season of suffering, it’s fair to ask:

What energy do they bring into your space?

We’re taught not to believe in “bad luck.”
But energy? Energy is very real.

You know when someone walks in with a dark cloud.
And sometimes, that cloud settles over both of you.

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🔄 But… What If It’s You?

Here’s the other side of the mirror:

What if they’re not bringing bad energy, but you are holding on too tight to a dynamic that was never meant to thrive?

What if they were never meant to build with you—just walk with you through the storm, then let go?

What if you’ve gotten so used to struggle with them…
that joy feels foreign?

And you keep cycling back to pain just because they’re familiar in it?

You’re not cursed.
You’re repeating.

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🔍 Reflection Is Not Rejection

It’s okay to say:

• “You were there… but I don’t feel lighter with you.”

• “You comforted me, but I never progressed with you.”

• “You didn’t hurt me… but we never healed.”

This isn’t about blame.
It’s about energetic inventory.

Who’s in your space?

What do they bring into it?

And most importantly:

How do you feel when they’re gone vs. when they’re near?

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🌿 Love Shouldn't Feel Like a Lifetime Sentence

Yes, love is patient.
Yes, love is kind.
But love should also be:

Fruitful. Peaceful. Elevating.

So maybe, just maybe…

That person who “held you down” during all your darkest moments—

—was never meant to rise with you into the light.

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💬 Would you stay loyal to someone who was always there for you…

Even if everything around you kept breaking down while they stayed?

Let’s talk about it in the comments.

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