🟪The Invisible Witness | By Roselyn A St Clair & Nomis

 

Intimacy isn’t just about skin—it’s about fear, vulnerability, and mortality. When a man like him confesses a fear of dying alone, you don’t just hear it; you carry it. In the quiet hours, you begin preparing for a moment you hope never comes.

We talk about everything—family, desire, women, sex, fantasies, the world. Nothing is off-limits. But one night, as the room still hummed with the afterglow of our bodies, he grew silent. And then he said it:

“One of my biggest fears… is dying at home. Alone. No one to call for help. No one to even notice I’m gone.”

I remember lying there, unable to speak. I wanted to say something—anything—but I didn’t. Perhaps I was afraid of making the thought too real. Perhaps I felt it wasn’t my place to offer a solution. But that sentence never left me. It nested in my chest.

Months later, in the middle of a wildly passionate night—sheets tangled, hearts racing—he moaned out something that pulled me straight out of the pleasure.

“Oh God… this type of session is going to kill me.”

It was said in jest, I know. But not to me. Not after what he’d shared. When our breathing finally settled, my head resting gently on his chest, I whispered, “I hear your heart beating. It’s almost back to normal.”

Then I asked the question that had been haunting me since that night:

“What if something happens to you while we’re together? What do I do? Who do I call? What is the arrangement? If you are… fully naked and unconscious—what is the move?”

He chuckled at first. 

I didn’t. 

I watched the smile fade from his face as he realized I was serious. He gave me a name—a doctor. I saved it in my phone immediately, a cold, clinical digit in a list of shared secrets.

He apologized then. 

He didn’t mean to scare me. He didn’t mean to joke about the end. But I knew it wasn’t just a joke; it was a weight he carries every night.

And then, the thoughts returned.

Why isn’t she the one there for him? 

Did she stop caring? 

Or did he? 

"They are tied by history and a formal commitment the world recognizes. 

But what does that recognition actually hold? 

A signature on a legal document? A ghost in the hallway of his life?"

His space is a gallery of her image—smiles frozen in silver frames that seem to track my every move with a silent surveillance. 

It is a strange thing to be watched by someone who doesn't even know you exist, yet her gaze feels like a constant question. She isn’t there in the flesh, but she is woven into the architecture of his world—an atmospheric pressure that never quite leaves the room. 

She is the phantom who occupies the walls, while I am the one who holds his heartbeat in the dark.

And if something happened to him… would I even be allowed to mourn? Would I be welcomed at the service? Could anyone be told the truth? Where would I sit?

I would be the last woman to kiss him. To hold him. To hear his breath slow and steady beneath my hand. And I would be invisible.

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🔻 Reflection

This isn’t just about being someone’s lover. It’s about becoming someone’s witness.

You become the person who sees what the world doesn’t. You know the rituals of his morning; the silence he fills with humming; the way he taps his foot when he’s deep in thought; the way he fears the night.

He fears dying alone. And maybe, I fear loving someone who already belongs to someone else—even if only in name.

I don’t want to be the secret at the funeral. I want to be the woman they describe when they say, “She loved him right to the end.”

But perhaps that’s too much to ask. Maybe that is the silent risk we take when we fall for someone who belongs to another….

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